All therapists have some training in the following therapies. Please see bios for information on which therapist practices from which theoretical orientation:
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
IFS is a therapeutic approach that aims to help individuals understand and heal their inner emotional system by exploring and transforming their various parts. In this context, "parts" refer to different aspects of your personality, emotions, and beliefs that can influence your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Here's an explanation of IFS therapy for you as a prospective client:
Internal Family Systems therapy recognizes that each person's mind is like a family, consisting of different parts, each with its own unique characteristics and functions. These parts can be compared to the different members of a family, each having its role, opinions, and emotions.
The Self: At the core of the IFS model, there is a concept called "Self." The Self is your true essence, the part of you that is compassionate, calm, and curious. It's the part that remains steady and wise, no matter the challenges you face.
Managers: Some parts of your inner system act as managers. They are responsible for keeping you organized, in control, and protected. They might manifest as perfectionism, self-criticism, or a strong need for order.
Exiles: Exiles are parts of you that hold your emotional pain and traumatic memories. When these parts are overwhelmed, they are "exiled" from your conscious awareness to avoid feeling the pain intensely.
Firefighters: Firefighters are the parts that emerge when the exiles' emotions and memories start to surface. They act as your coping mechanisms, often through behaviors like addictions, self-harm, or other distractions to prevent the emotional pain from overwhelming you.
During IFS therapy, the therapist helps you explore and understand these different parts, building a relationship with each of them in a safe and non-judgmental space. The goal is not to get rid of any part but to restore balance and harmony within your inner system.
The therapist assists you in accessing your Self – that compassionate and calm core – which can then take on a healing role for the other parts. When the Self leads the internal family, the managers can relax, the exiles can be comforted, and the firefighters no longer need to act out destructively.
IFS therapy can be highly effective in addressing various issues, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, and other emotional challenges. It empowers you to become more self-aware, self-compassionate, and in control of your responses to life's challenges.
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
DBT is a comprehensive and evidence-based approach that combines various therapeutic techniques to help individuals manage their emotions, improve their relationships, and cope with distress more effectively.
Here's a breakdown of what you can expect from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as a prospective client:
Dialectics: The "dialectics" in DBT refers to the idea that there can be truth or validity in different perspectives, even seemingly opposite ones. It emphasizes finding a balance between acceptance and change. This means that while you'll work on changing problematic behaviors, thoughts, and emotions, you'll also learn to accept yourself and your emotions without judgment.
Core Skills: DBT teaches four core skills that are essential for coping with emotional challenges:
a. Mindfulness: This skill involves being fully present in the moment, without judgment. You'll learn to observe and describe your emotions and experiences without trying to suppress or avoid them.
b. Distress Tolerance: These skills help you manage and tolerate distressing situations when you can't immediately change them. You'll learn techniques to ride out intense emotions and avoid impulsive reactions.
c. Emotion Regulation: This involves understanding and managing your emotions more effectively. You'll learn to identify and change emotional responses that are not helpful or appropriate.
d. Interpersonal Effectiveness: These skills focus on improving communication, setting boundaries, and maintaining healthy relationships.
Commitment to Change: DBT requires a commitment to change and active participation in therapy. It is a structured and collaborative process where you and your therapist work together to build a life worth living.
DBT is known for its compassionate and non-judgmental approach. It acknowledges that individuals may be doing the best they can, while also encouraging growth and change. The therapy aims to help you build a life that aligns with your values, improves your emotional well-being, and enhances your relationships.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
EMDR is a therapeutic approach designed to help individuals process and heal from distressing or traumatic experiences.
EMDR aims to address the lingering effects of past traumatic events, such as accidents, abuse, combat experiences, natural disasters, or other distressing incidents that continue to impact your daily life and emotional well-being. These traumatic memories can cause emotional distress, negative beliefs about yourself, and may lead to various symptoms like anxiety, depression, flashbacks, or difficulty coping with stress.
The treatment typically consists of eight phases:
History Taking: In the initial phase, your therapist will get to know you, gather information about your life history, and understand the specific issues you are seeking help for. This includes identifying the traumatic events that are causing difficulties in your life.
Preparation: Your therapist will explain the EMDR process and what to expect. You will also discuss coping strategies to handle emotional distress during and between sessions.
Assessment: Together with your therapist, you will identify the target memories, which are the distressing events that you want to process. These memories will be the focus of the EMDR treatment.
Desensitization: This is the core phase of EMDR. You will be asked to focus on the target memory while simultaneously engaging in bilateral stimulation. Bilateral stimulation can involve following your therapist's hand movements with your eyes, listening to alternating sounds, or feeling tactile sensations through tapping or other means. This process helps your brain reprocess the traumatic memories, making them less distressing.
Installation: During this phase, your therapist will help you replace negative beliefs about yourself (e.g., "I am not safe" or "I am worthless") with positive and adaptive beliefs (e.g., "I am safe now" or "I am deserving of love and respect").
Body Scan: Your therapist will guide you in checking for any residual physical tension related to the targeted memory and help release it.
Closure: At the end of each session, your therapist will ensure you feel emotionally stable before you leave. You'll discuss any emotions or thoughts that may have come up during the session.
Reevaluation: In subsequent sessions, your therapist will review progress and address any new issues that may arise.
EMDR is a well-regarded therapeutic approach known for its ability to bring about significant changes in a relatively short time.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of therapy that helps individuals identify and change unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors. It focuses on the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. CBT is goal-oriented and aims to provide practical strategies to manage challenges. It involves collaborative work between the therapist and client to challenge negative beliefs, develop healthier coping skills, and promote positive changes in behavior. CBT is often time-limited and structured, with a focus on the present moment and finding solutions for current difficulties.
Gottman Method Couples Therapy
The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing and repairing relationships. It is based on extensive research by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman. The method helps couples strengthen their friendship, improve communication, and resolve conflicts effectively. It emphasizes building trust, fostering intimacy, and developing shared goals and rituals. The Gottman Method provides practical tools and techniques to promote long-term relationship satisfaction and stability.
Integration of Wellness into Therapy
Wellness is an approach that focuses on enhancing overall well-being and promoting a balanced and fulfilling life. It emphasizes the integration of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of health. The therapy involves exploring and cultivating positive emotions, strengths, and values to enhance resilience and life satisfaction. It may include practices such as mindfulness, gratitude, self-care, and goal setting. Wellness aims to empower individuals to make positive lifestyle changes and develop strategies for maintaining optimal well-being. All therapists at The Wellife, LLC are grounded in wellness to provide holistic improvement beyond just symptom reduction.